Playing with the Bean

I am supposing some of you are wondering what bean I am referring too.  The clit of course, that little nub above my pee hole and my pussy hole. The one that makes me soo hot and makes me moan and groan when I touch it.  I find it amazing that such a tiny piece of flesh can make the rest of my body loose control and shake like a leaf.  I know you girls know what I am talking about, I know, I have heard it, "I don't masturbate, that is why I have a boyfriend".  Be honest, we all love to play with the bean, we will rub it against furniture, put a vibrator on it, make it go to the left and right with our fingers, flick on it, tap on it, pull it, squeeze it, you name it, we love to play with it. No different than guys stroking their cocks, tapping them, squeezing them, or flicking it. 

We are all sexual beings, and we love to get off.  Some more than others, like me.  I will admit, I love to masturbate three, four times a day.  I will get horny on something that sometimes does not make sense, but I go with the flow; if it is going to get me off, I am there. The difference is I am not ashamed to admit that I am a woman who loves to get fucked and loves to play with herself.  Once I read that masturbation is the first and most important skill a woman can learn, as it holds the key to other types of sexual activity and provides women with options other than sexual frustration, tension, and it gives them freedom and independence; psychological and physical.

How it is done?  It all depends on you, there is no right way or wrong way to get off.  Some women just rub the clit from side to side, others will flicker or tap, other women will stimulate the clit as they put fingers inside their pussy hole or stick a dildo or vibrator.  Some women will get a vibe and just lay it on their clit, other rub their clit on furniture, pillows, stuff animals, knobs of one kind or the other; it is all good, as long as you feel comfortable and you are getting off, it is okay to use whatever mean is necessary.  I will say that the brain is probably the most important part of the stimulation, I have always said that I love to have my brain fucked.  It is true, the brain is the largest sex organ, the ability to create a fantasy is one of the greatest way to stimulate your clit.  Don't get me wrong, some of us still need a nice hard cock deep inside, but we will not just accept any cock, that is were the brain comes in.  It has to be one that adapts to our fantasy in order for us to get off.

to be continued......

Lips

Lately I have been getting quite a bit of emails from ladies who feel their lips are too big.  No, I am not talking about the ones on your face.  I am talking about pussy lips.

Honestly, you should not be self-conscious about them. Like guys dicks which come in different shapes and sizes, we girls also have pussies that come in different shapes and sizes.  I have friends who sport longer lips, shorter lips, clit more expose, clit under the hood, one lip longer than the other, minimal lips, a constant opening, etc... you get the idea.  Trust me ladies, men love the pussy no matter what.  They just want an opportunity to get inside for a little while; enjoy filling it with their love.  I personally have one lip slightly longer than the other and as it goes towards the back it thins out a lot, so my pussy hole can easily be seen.  When I first discover that my one lips was longer than the other, of course, I panicked and was wondering why they were not symmetrical. I asked my best friend if hers was the same way, we ended up comparing and as it turns out she also had one lip slightly longer than the other.  It was actually quite interesting, because we took out a ruler to try to measure them; silly. As I got older and notice more pussies and converse with other women, I  came to realize that I was perfectly normal, we all had different pussies and that was okay. 

The bottom line, no pun intended, is that you need to celebrate who you are and the differences you have.  That is what makes all of us special individuals and attractive to one another.  Think about it this way, if all the guys you fuck had the same size and shape cock, then were would the fun be.  Same goes for guys, if all the tits, ass and pussy were the same, then it would not be fun pursuing it.

Vacation

Back from a little vacation.  Had a bit of fun in sin city.  Nothing like a little gambling to break the monotony; I did not win at all, but I did get lay while in sin city. Met an older gentleman, okay, not that old.  He was 40 years old.  Initially he was a true gentleman, then his sexual perversion starting coming out, among other things. His fantasy was to fuck a young girl in a casino floor.  Of course, there is a million cameras on any casino, so we embarked on trying to figure out we could accomplish this feat.

The first step was for him to have easy access to my pussy and of course, he needed to be able to pull it out without too much fanfare.  The next step was to pick a place and a time were there was not too much traffic and were we thought cameras might be at a minimum.  

I put on a very micro skirt on, that was a bit loose, so this way he could just flick it up and viola, my pussy. He put on some trousers that were a bit loose with an extremely large zipper and of course he did not wear underwear, neither did I.  Nothing new there.  We then went to a corner area in the $50 slot machines, considerably less traffic, but unfortunately, there was some sort of attendant making her rounds.  We sat there playing the slots to see how long it would take the attendant to make her rounds, same thing for the waitress ( I did not mind her, she looked yummy). He sat on the stool as I worked my way in between his legs; he begin to grab my ass and pull up my skirt. Just the idea of getting caught got me a bit wet; as he begin to slowly run his finger through the middle of my ass cheeks and slightly touch my pussy, I could feel his cock getting hard. At this point, the waitress interrupted by offering some drinks, I think she knew what we were up to because she did give me a little wink. After that interruption we decided we would just go for it.  He pulled his cock out and I could immediately feel it in between my ass, I quickly stood on my tip toes and lean slightly forward, he then spread my ass, I grabbed his cock with my hand in between my legs and stuck it inside my pussy.  It felt great, just the thought of being naughty, with the potential of someone spotting us or worse; getting caught on camera and getting arrested.  I quickly put money in the slot machine and acted like I was playing it. The only thing getting played with was my pussy, I got super wet and was riding him slowly, we did not want to make any crazy move, just wanted to pretend that I was sitting in between his legs playing the slots.  As I rocked slowly back and forth, I could feel his cock throb inside of me, I would lean back and give him an opportunity to pull me with his hand towards his cock.  We did this for a good 5 minutes, when our waitress came back with our drinks.  She was great, she put the drinks to the side and realized I was getting fucked.  She then said "it looks like you will not need anything else", very cool on her behalf. 

As I continue to rock slowly back and forth, I kept squeezing harder on his cock with my pussy.  I really wanted him to cum quickly; he did.  I felt his hot cum as he exploded inside me, I quickly lean back to take all of his cock in and sat deep on him.  We stayed in this position for a while, meanwhile I kept squeezing my kegel muscles, literally sucking his cum out with my pussy.  He pulled out, put his cock in his pants and we then proceeded to get a bite to eat.  It was great, I could feel his cum in my pussy as I walked, actually a bit of it started to run down my leg.  I stopped cleaned it off with my finger and licked it off.  It was a hot experience. Girls, I highly recommend you have sex in public at least once, it is an exhilarating experience to know you are getting fucked with the potential of someone catching you in the act. 

I also recommend that you girls do your Kegel exercises, this will give you tremendous control and make your sexual experience greater. Get your toys so you can start practicing.